Eeek!

We are OK! This past Saturday, I was taking my girls to gymnastics class. On the way we got into an accident (as you can see). I was travelling in the right lane and the left lane was backed up. A guy in a truck, travelling in the opposite direction was making a left turn across traffic. Apparently a car in the left lane created space for him to cross. He crossed right in front of me and tried to beat me. There was not much time to react and all I remember is my tires screeching and hitting the back of the truck. It was a little frightening and our girls were crying. But, we walked away with scratches from our seat belts.

The thing that gets me is that the other driver is an immigrant. Nothing wrong with immigrants, I was one at one point. I say this because he did not have a drivers license nor any insurance. His vehicle was impounded because of those reasons. The immigrant population is extremely high here in CA and for obvious and natural reasons. The debate on immigration policies is hotly debated but I am now more convicted that immigration should be more strictly enforced.

As a matter of perspective, I am thankful that we are all safe. This kind of throws a wrench into our life but this too works out. As we transition from our church ministry and prepare our move to Canada we were planning to sell our car anyways. Now, we will just get insurance money for it. I found out yesterday that the car will not be able to be repaired.

Where are you?

Just wanted to see what kind of hits we're getting on our family site.

SOME ANTICIPATED HITS

Family locations:
Edmonton
Seattle
Ottawa, Ontario
Philadelphia (but parents can't surf the web).

Friends:
Cerritos, CA
Philadelphia, PA
Cherokee, NC
Boston, MA
NYC, NY

Thank you for all your prayers!

I want to thank all of you who were in prayer for the announcement of my resignation at CPC. It went relatively well - mostly shock and sadness. The transition time was and is being handled well by our leaders. They are moving quickly to fill the position. Please continue to lift up this ministry.

For the rest of you who are just hearing for the first time, I announced my resignation this past Sunday. I have been here for four and a half years. I can't believe it has gone by so quickly. There has been so many memories here. The support and encouragement that I have received has been overwhelming. Many have expressed just in the matter of days their sadness to see me go. I simply reply that I am sad too. Please continue to pray that I would complete this ministry well.

New prayer request:
I shared with the the EM here that I have accepted an invitation to plant a church with a small group in Edmonton, Alberta CANADA. That's right, you heard correctly. We're going back to Su Jin's home town. I'll be sharing more about this opportunity with you all in the future. My last Sunday will be March 25th. Su Jin has to complete her contract to teach until the end of June. Starting in April I will be taking some time to pray and prepare for this effort. Please pray for me. I would greatly appreciate it. I hope to share with many of you the vision and plan.

Memorial of Pastor Al Groves

I thought I was challenged by Prof Groves and his families testimony as they anticipated his passing.

I found out today that he wrote a personal letter to be read at his own memorial service.

I was challenged and blessed to read his letter. It made me think of Psalm 112. Click on Prof Groves picture if you want to read the letter.

Ok, now that's FAITH!

Friends of Al Groves

Click here if you want to be stretched in faith.

CJ's first tooth

OK, it's Chloe's turn to start loosing her teeth. I think she's losing them faster than Pb b/c as soon as this tooth was loose she was wiggling that tooth every chance she had. She lost it today after school when she was jumping rope. Her day care teacher put it in a nice little container. But, as soon as we got home she was playing with it and it rolled into the cushions of one of our chairs. The problem is that it's the kind of chair that doesn't have removeable cushions. I tried as hard as I could to find it. CJ tried to be as brave as she could but it was too much to bear. She started balling! I tried to look for it some more but it was in the chair for good. She was looking forward to putting it under her pillow.

I'll still put the quarter under her pillow tonight... or was it a dollar?

Reunion - Pastoral Style

The English Ministry Pastor's Conference was held at Sarang Community Church this past week. Since it was so close I decided to go. I was blessed and challenged by the speakers.

It was also a time to catch up and reminisce about the past. Here's a list of the peeps I ran into:

Pastor Daniel Kim - former senior pastor of KUC and now sr. pastor of Sarang.
OK, everyone is a pastor so I'll leave that out. You have to call Pastor Daniel pastor cause I just respect the guy. But, that doesn't mean I don't respect the following people.

Joe Myung - used to be in Houston but now in San Diego
Paul "Hooch" Lee - formerly at KUC but in the Phila area
Paul Kim - still at Emmanuel (he still looks young but he's going grey... weird), and Man, can he preach!
Min Chung - still in Urbana (wow, he's changed... much more calm and wise; I was blessed by him)
Hyung Kim - older brother that graduated WTS before me, served at Emmanuel and now somewhere in Cleveland
Young Choi - served in IV at Swarthmore, then studied at U of Wisconsin, and now in Atlanta
Duk Jin - younger brother that graduated after me and is currently serving at Sarang
Pastor Steve Park - another man I respect quite a bit
Fuji - what a dear brother
Michael Oh - what is he doing at an EM conference?!
Rick Kim - I met up with him right after we moved to CA.
Iron Kim - We met up after he moved down from San Fran but been to busy to meet up with him.
Bruce Lim - Now, that's an oldy from the past... served at KUC with his wife Susan. I think they were in NY. He moved to CA a year ago and I had no idea that he was here.

I met some new faces. Still meeting some other pastors in the CA area. It's weird but pastors have to network too.

If you're reading this try to take out some time to pray for your pastors regularly.

thanks for your prayers!

WOW...37!

37 is OLD! I turned one year older today. I'm thankful for my health, my family, and my ministry. I told Su Jin today that I don't look forward to my birthdays anymore. Not b/c I'm sad for aging but b/c the festivities; the cake, the presents don't mean much to me.

I am reminded that I am loved by my family. This picture means way more to me than the cake or the recognition that I get on this day. I am encouraged by my wife who is so supportive.

Thank you everyone!

Principal Award x's 2

PB and CJ were supposed to get the Principal's Achievement Award before the break but it rained on their last assembly day.

They received their awards this past Friday. I was so proud! It was so neat to see how surprised they were when their names were called. CJ was so excited she was hopping when she received the certificate.

PB got student of the month last year but what a treat it was this year to see both of my daughters get recognized on the same day.


I must say it was a proud moment for me. It is too much to expect them to do well academically this early? CJ promises us that she will become a doctor some day. She also says in the same breath that she doesn't plan to marry. Her plan is to make lots of money so that we can live with her. She says that she's going to buy me an SUV.

I'm writing this down so that it is documented somewhere so I can prove to her that she said it.

PB has some dreams that she wants to accomplish too. Her dreams tend to be more on the creative side. She says that she wants to be a teacher or an author. She has also thought of being a nurse (for a while she thought doctors were only men). Unlike CJ, she does plan to marry but she reassures me it won't be too soon (she knows that it's a sensitive issue for me).

Happy New Year everyone!

Introducing...

Piper Su Jung Koehn born Jan 3, 2007.

My sister had her 2nd baby this past week. That makes 2 daughters for the Koehns and 2 daughters for the Chongs. I wonder how my parents are taking the news of two sets of 2 daughters? They say that Korean parents always prize their sons. Well as for me, I treasure my daughters.

Piper and her sister, Audrey, were born with this greyish tint in their eyes. Their eyes get darker as they get older. I look at her and can't help but feel that she will have a personality like Chloe's. Audrey, the older sister, is very gentle, affectionate, and a bit shy. It should be interesting to see how her personality will start coming out. I can't wait to meet you face to face.

Lord, bless her and her family!

Christmas 2006

Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas celebration! We miss you all. God bless you in the New Year!

Gingerbread house - Christmas 2006

The making of Christmas card 2006

It's harder than it looks. Click on pic to see all our shots. You can see that our girls look tired by the end of the shoot.

Thanksgiving 06

Thanksgiving for us is always a time to get away! 2 years ago we visited Santa Barbara. It was beautiful and a great place to visit. I could have prepared for that trip a little better.

Last year we were not able to take our annual adventure to explore CA. We spent last year moving into our house. That was crazy!! We got the key at the last possible moment right before Thanksgiving (5 0r 6 pm the day before). We spent Thanksgiving at a local restaurant and went back to packing/unpacking into our new house.

OK, now to Thanksgiving 06... we went to the mountains. Big Bear is the equivalent of the Poconos out east. I haven't gone skiing yet, so I can't actually compare how the slopes are but the level of difficulty seems about the same. I was googling for things to do up there and found that there was a tubing place that was open and had man-made snow out already. OK, get ready... I had to pay $20/person to go tubing! Can you believe that?? I never ever remember having to pay to go tubing. If you're from Canada, you know you would never pay that amount to go tubing. But, I guess that's what Californians think if they ever go to NJ/NY to go to the beach and you have to pay for beach tags. We got our moneys worth. We arrived early around 9:30 and we tubed until 1:30. They closed at 4 pm and people were still coming (and I am assuming that they were still paying the $20!!).

We had a light lunch early but we started getting hungry at 3:00. We had reservations at 5:30 but dropped in early at the restaurant to see if they would seat us. Our girls had a wonderful turkey dinner. I broke tradition and had a wonderful cowboy cut (16 oz) prime rib. We drove back early... the girls fell asleep and when we got home (7 pm) they went straight to bed. OK, this is a family tradition that I could get used to! Su Jin and I had a relaxing evening to ourselves where we just sat and watched TV together (did you catch Survivor?!).

Where will we go next year? Joshua Tree National park, San Diego, Baja Mexico, Catalina... the possibilities are endless. Just say no to turkey! Start a new family Thanksgiving tradition!

Click on pic below to view our Thanksgiving album.

Thanksgiving 2006

Through a father's eyes

We had some ladies over this past weekend. I was the designated babysitter. It's always neat seeing our kids play together. We have a handful of kids around PB and CJ's age. They're all good friends. The parents always joke about them someday potentially (*note emphasis upon potential) marrying one another. That has always been the case for me. Who knows even if they will be friends when they get older and go away to college.

But, this blog is about being a father of daughters. The special relationship that a father has with his daughter is something special. I always get the question if Su Jin and I will have more children. That question is usually followed up with the question if I wish I could have a son. Obviously I don't know what it is to have a son but I'm pretty sure it would be pretty different. I think I would be a buddy/mentor with a son. But as a father of daughters it is so different. I am a father, role model, protector, teacher, leader, parent. I am sure that if some stranger came across this site and read this they may perceive me to be sexist. I am not saying that my daughters are weak or "needy". My daughters are just my daughters. You are (excuse me for my directness) nothing in comparison to me, as their father. I am DAD and you are NOT! So remember that when you enter into a relationship with my daughters. Hahahaha!!

So, I saw PB and CJ playing with our friend Jonathan. And the thought crossed my mind - someday they will find someone. Who could it be? How will I be able to make sure that he's a genuine guy? Will I be able to lead them to choose good men? And, then I settle myself down and pray for a couple more years to prepare for that day. I think it's just around the corner (our girls already share about boys and girls calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend by 1st grade - scary!).

The other day CJ came home saying that a boy asked her for her name. After she told him, he puckered his lips at her. She shared in a shy way but also in a way that she liked the attention. I told her to tell boys who do that to call them stupid or to smack them (literally). Su Jin doesn't like my counsel b/c she thinks that I will get them into trouble. I don't care if our girls get in trouble for that. The boys (and their parents) should be getting in trouble for putting girls (especially my girls) in awkward positions!

So, to answer the question -- No, we are not planning to have any more children.

To answer the 2nd question -- Sure, I would like to have a son but I would be more eager to have more girls!

Off to school!!

Some of you know how it feels to send off your child to school, but it's a whole different story sending your wife to school. She started her first day at work/school today. We are both still in a state of shock (maybe even denial) that she got the job.

It should be ok, even though we are into the 3rd week of school. The classroom is already decorated. This week she is only shadowing the teacher and assisting. It won't be until next week that she will have to run the classroom by herself. She will have to organize parent-teacher meetings soon.

We had our last "free" day together yesterday. It was my day off yesterday and the girls were in school. Su Jin decided to go to B & N to read up and get some resources. I thought it would be nice to grab lunch out together. So after taking care of some house chores, I met up with her at a local food court.

It was nice to sit and chat. She had to go in to sign the "official" contract. When we sat down to eat she said that she didn't have an appetite. She was still nervous that she had gotten the job and that she was in shock that she would be starting tomorrow. She was also in a state of shock that she would be getting paid for it. Ha ha... I cherished yesterday. All my girls are growing up. They're all off to school. So, I'll be home alone on Mondays!

Please keep Su Jin in your prayers as she back to being a career woman!

Feeling blah - blogskins that is

That's why I've been changing them. Trying to find the right feel.

I guess this is good for now.

As for the previous post about Su Jin's job. SHE GOT IT!! Thanks for your prayers. She will be starting next week.

Time to take my teacher out to dinner!

Please pray...

Some of you may know that Su Jin has been preparing herself to teach. Over this past year she has taken 6 credentialing exams. She finished her last set in July. We both were worried that her scores would not be available in time for her to start applying for openings. She received them some time in Aug. She has been diligently submitting those applications throughout local school districts. It has been tough to wait upon the Lord, especially as schools began to start. We got even more concerned after many schools started their first day. A question on Su Jin's mind has been, "why aren't they calling me for an interview?".

Su Jin has gotten some temporary substitute positions over the past week. But, yesterday while on one of her jobs she received a call from Su Jin's former school district. There is an opening in the Cypress school district for a 3rd grade teacher. It's something that she has been praying for.

It looks like it will be a tough interview. She will be going in tomorrow to teach a math word problem to a class and before a board of interviewers. She will also fielding questions from this panel after the class presentation. There are other interviewees as well. Please pray that she is confident before the interview panel. She has been nervous ever since she got the call. She has gotten a great endorsement from the principal that she worked for last year. Su Jin has also gotten a lot of support and advise from the teachers at the same school. All she needs now is prayer. We are thankful in seeing God's providence to provide this opportunity.

Thanks for all your prayers!

It's a small world...

OK, now it's really a small world. Guess who came by for a visit?!...not only to visit but to live here just a few towns away. The picture is of my friend's daughter.

Hints:

1) He is originally from NY.
2) He served at KUC (my home church)
3) He most recently served at a church in San Fransisco.

Any guesses?

Back to school

Don't you just love this time of year? Phoebe and Chloe are back to school. It was exciting! So many parents had their cameras. The parking lot was full.

Chloe is in kindergarten now. Phoebe is so independant. They don't need Daddy anymore. This is a big transition for me. Last year, Phoebe was having lunch at school so it was just Su Jin, Chloe, and I (sounds too proper). Now, I'm free to meet up with church members more. I guess that's a blessing but I'd rather be home with my girls.

On a different front... our family has finally stepped into the 21st century and got connected to a cable modem. Ha ha... for our entire marriate we've always used dial-up (aol, mindspring, juno...). Our last dial up service was with juno and the connection was ancient. It reminded me of the days when aol first came onto the scene. You might see us on line more.



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Family Vacation 2006

OK, we're back home! We logged over 2600 miles on our mini-van.

Mon. July 24th 8 AM Left home. I drove over 600 miles and made it to Yreka, CA.
Tues. July 25th: Yreka, CA to Seattle, WA
Wed. July 26th: Seattle Aquarium, Pikes Place (fishmarket), and saw THE STARBUCKS (original).














Thurs. July 27th: Space Needle and Children's Museum














Fri. July 28th: Local Park
Sat. July 29th: Woodland Park Zoo














Sun. July 30th: Worship at Seattle Grace and departing Seattle. Travel down the coast of Oregon to Newport, OR.
Mon. July 31st: Alturas, CA. There is absolutely nothing out here!
Tues. Aug 1st: Topaz Lake, NV. We drove past Lake Tahoe and it was beautiful. I'll have to take the family some day.
Wed. Aug 2nd: Yosemite National Park, CA. After a full day of site seeing we drive on to Fresno to rest.














Thurs. Aug 3rd: On our ride home we find an outlet shopping center. Of course, we stop. We get some things for the coming fall. We got some good deals on sneakers, shirts, and luggage! We finally make it home after dinner time.
Fri. Aug 4th rest, clean up, laundry, mow our lawn...
Sun. Aug 6th I took the day off to go visit Sarang. It's C-R-A-Z-Y!! There are shuttle buses from satellite parking lots and there are at least 30-40 people in a couple of lines. It took us 15 mins just to get into the main campus. It was a good worship. I know some pastors there but never thought I would bump into them but I did. Not only that but there was a visiting pastor and his family and also another alumni that just started there.

Now, back to work!